Friday, June 26, 2020

Dear Inthe…I’m In Love With The Wrong Guy.






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Dear Inthe...

To say your blog has been a total blessing to me would be stating it lightly.

I have been in a relationship with a guy which I absolutely love and adore and I bet he does same but we have a fundamental challenge between us; our beliefs; he is Christian Science and I am of the "Pentecostal" faith.


all we do is make up, and break up, when we wake up.

We have been going back and forth on this issue for almost 6 years now.. My "partner" believes that going to our separate Churches would work if we are committed to making it work. I on the other hand am so particular about my relationship with Christ and want to grow more in the knowledge of God. We don't even seem to have a spiritual life together ( we end up fighting most times when we bring Bible stories up) and his views are oh so different from mine!. I know I really shouldn't be in this relationship. I have talked to people, had personal revelations but for some reason I haven't really been able to walk even when I know in my heart that is the best thing to do. I am stuck down with so much fear.. He is the only one I have ever dated.. Shared my life and dreams with.. He is like the centre of my world. A whole lot of questions keep running through my mind- Will I find someone as good as he is? How do I cope with starting anew? I am deeply hurt inside.

What to do?
Lost in Love...


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Friday, June 19, 2020

Is Your Husband Your Idol?





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I've mentioned in so many previous posts about how I've always seen the hubster as being more spiritual mature than myself.  In this episode, sharing from my own personal experience, I discuss a common mistake married women make of turning their husbands into idols.This is especially common if their husbands are "good men".

 Triptychs of Strangers #4: The Couple I, Montmartre - Paris



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Thursday, June 11, 2020

Dear Inthe...Is He Too Young For Me?




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Dear Inthe…
What do you think about dating/marrying someone 3 years younger than you?
Fine girl-No pimples

My Love Rings True For You


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Friday, June 05, 2020

Sex is...


 
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Well since I did a post on what "Sex is not..." it is only logical for me to do a post on what I believe it is...


Having some fun with writing on my hands

In this episode, I continue the discussion on what sex is and is not within the Christian relationship.




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Friday, May 29, 2020

Dear Inthe, I Am Afraid Of Committing To My Boyfriend.



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 Dear IntheMidstofher,

 How can you overcome the fear of commitment. I have been dating a wonderful man for a few years and the fear of even getting a proposal scares me. I broke off the relationship twice and got back again. I am afraid he may not be the one because I’ve received prophecies about him.

Fear of Commitment.




















Some of the people of God I had met - people I have know for years say if I go ahead I will never be all that God wants me to be while the other’s advise me to go ahead with the relationship in faith. What should I do? I don’t want to make a mistake.
Thank you,
Soft Stepper

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Friday, May 22, 2020

Let's Talk About Sex!






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It seems like my last post about abstinence and celibacy in a relationship resonated with a lot of singles. In this episode, I want to discuss popular misconceptions singles/unmarried people have about the role sex plays in a relationship.

My pen is black, My ink is pale, My love 4 U..had always faile !!

Let's talk about it!



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Friday, May 15, 2020

Dear Inthe... How Do I Give Up Sex?.



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Hi, Inthemidstofher

I want to say thanks for the advice a while back when I messed up with my boyfriend, am happy to say my boyfriend forgave me and we are working things out right now......I owe that to u....thanks a whole lot. Inthemidstofher I have another issue I will like to hear your opinion about..

So right now am trying to stop having sex, I want to have a better relationship with God. How do I tell my boyfriend we have to stop, our relationship is long distance there's always that urge when we see each other after a long time. How are we supposed to be intimate without sex, am worried we might not have a relationship or it will just be formal and boring without sex

Close-up portrait of a young couple in love


I really dont know what to do, mere seeing my boyfriend arouses me. When he comes over or I go over does it mean we can't sleep in the same room, does it mean we can't kiss. How is the relationship going to work, we are a long way from marriage can we survive it. Looking forward to your reply
Can I just say I love you.....Yes alot of Homo
What you are doing is amazing
May God continue to bless you
Lover Girl


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