Friday, September 18, 2020

Dear Inthe...My Spiritual Father Is In Love With Me.

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Dear Inthe,


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I love your blog so much it inspires me in all areas of my life. I am certain I have found my one (hubster) but my spiritual father doesn't like him because he himself (my spiritual father)is in love with me and makes my life almost unbearable. He is always speaking negative about my boo and his church and stuff. I am really  confused pls what do I do*?
---Mandy
*Edited for Content.


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Friday, September 11, 2020

Living and Loving In the Present: How I Learned to "Mary My Martha-ness."

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---Martha, dear Martha, you’re fussing far too much and getting yourself worked up over nothing. One thing only is essential, and Mary has chosen it— and won’t be taken from her.”( Luke 10:41-42).


Once upon a time, my hubby's biggest complaints about me was that I was rarely "in the present" with him. In this episode, I explain what this means and share how I learned to Mary my Martha-ness and deal with this common relationship killer. 
All The Rage

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Friday, September 04, 2020

Dear Inthe, Let's talk about Phone Sex


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Dear Ma,
I read your blog once in a while, and I must thank God for the things He's been able to accomplish through you. Well done Ma.
I have a question though, somehow I feel I already know the answer but just want clarifications.  Is it wrong to talk about sex with your partner? I'm in a long distant relationship and every now and then "such" feelings come up and over the phone, things happen... He's made his intentions known, though of course I've never been active, but since he came along, we've had some cuddly/playful moments, not the main deal of course... I'm 25 and by God's grace, I'll be settling down this year, I just want to know what you think about playing with my partner over the phone.

Thanks
Curious


 Peace & Quiet

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Friday, August 28, 2020

The Gift of Forgetting...




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Phil 3 vs 13 (NASB): …Forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward… 

Looking back at my life, I have gone through a lot and accumulated things I no longer want to remember; both things done to me and things I have done to others. 





In this episode, I discuss the gift of forgetting and why it is important to leave some relationships in the past. 

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Friday, August 21, 2020

Dear Inthe, What are your top tips for single women?


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Dear Inthe, what are the top 3 tips you would give single women who are looking forward to being in relationships in the future?
Thank you,
Bella Rose

LUST

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Friday, August 14, 2020

Marriage 101 - The Hard Times.



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In this episode, I come clean about the fallacy that I have a perfect marriage and why I believe perfect marriage do not exist.


“Inthe, you make marriage look so easy.” 
“ Inthe, I can’t wait to have a marriage like yours.” 
“ Inthe…your blog makes me want to get married ASAP!”.

Day 44: "The Look Out"

Comments like these make me happy but they are not necessarily true. In this episode, I get real and come clean about the fallacy that I have a perfect marriage and discuss why I believe perfect marriage do not exist.

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Friday, August 07, 2020

Dear Inthe... Will God make me settle for less?







Dear Inthe,

How are you doing? I've been following your blog and I'm learning a lot about marriage and the waiting period. So, I'm 27 years old, female, single and not in any relationship now. 

You usually say we should be open to what God wants and not have fixed ideas about physical characteristics. I want, above all, a godly 1 Tim 3 kinda man. But there are some things that really get to me, like a guy who can't speak good english or who can't be bothered about his appearance and looks scruffy. I try to look past this though but somehow it never works out with these men. The trouble is I'm meeting too many such guys. 
 Waiting for Godot

My question now is, can God give me a man who can't even construct one proper sentence or is this just a problem of me being in the wrong place? am i being too picky if i say i want a 1 Tim 3 man who dresses neat & smart, and is well-spoken? The guys who ask me out that fit the physical characteristics are married men, so obviously lacking in the spiritual. I really want a godly man, and do not mind the waiting.  

looking forward to your reply.
Thanks
 Anonymous


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