Prov 9 vs 6: Leave your simple ways behind, and begin to live; learn to use good judgment." (NLT)
When I was much younger, I created a list of things I wanted in my future husband. Looking back, its so funny that I decided to share. This list is in no particular order....
1) Must be Nigerian
2)Must be 6ft or taller
3)Preferably the last born of his parents
4) Must be an equal balance between Naija and American ( Not so ajebutter that if we both went to 9ja, we would end up kidnapped and sold into slavery...but also not so razz that I couldn't take him anywhere)
5)Must have Masters or higher...
6)Must not talk more than I do
7)Must be masculine yet soft and sensitive
8)Must love all types of music
9)MUST!!! have nice hands
10)Must be a great dresser.
.....You can stop laughing now!
Looking back at this list, even though I applaud myself for being disciplined enough to know what I wanted...or thought I wanted...I can't help but laugh at my naivete. I notice that I did not write anything about love...God...ethics...family or even maturity; things I would later crave in a man as I lived and got more mature.
Thankful that God is not the answerer of foolish prayers..lol
...musings from atop the potter's wheel...