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I quit the (Mega)church where I was going to seek a smaller more intimate church. I remembered of this old schoolmate, “Jay" that is a born again christian, and called him to let him know that I needed to find a new church, and see if it was ok for him to see me join" his" church. The next sunday, I spent my 1st time there and it has been a really blessing. Here’s my dilemma, I think I am growing in love with him! When we were in uni, I never had a second thought about him., but now, I am forced to recognize that my thoughts are changing about him. I see him every sunday, sometimes, we hang out after church with other youths, other times we go at the restaurant after church (still with other friends).
The problem is I feel he is not comfortable around me at all. It’s like he is trying his best to avoid me. In a group, he can "stand" my presence, but if it is just the 2 of us talking, he will try to interrupt the conversation as soon as he can. He is not like that with the other young women of the church. He can talk with them for hours so naturally. I don't believe in "he avoids you because he loves you”,when a man is really in love or let's just say "interested" at this stage, he can't help but make the proper move at some point. I wonder why he avoids me like that! If he did not wanted me to join "his" church, he should have let me know when I asked him. Sometimes, he acts like he doesn't see me, and I need to go out of my way to say "Good morning Jay!" It is THAT weird!
Please Inthe, can you help me to see things a litlle bit clearly…?
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