Thursday, June 11, 2020

Dear Inthe...Is He Too Young For Me?

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Dear Inthe…
What do you think about dating/marrying someone 3 years younger than you?
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Okeoghene said...

Before you can be thinking of marrying someone there is a level of maturity and qualities that he should possess. If he has all that and age is the only barrier, i think it is a non-issue. Age is not evident on the face except he is 18 and you are 24.

Unknown said...

Hmmm... I like your reply ma :)
We don't walk by sight but by faith.


Omoregee said...

I have this uncle whose wife is three years older than him, if you are not told, you wouldn't know. People are a bit skeptical when the woman is older perhaps because of the belief that says girls mature faster than boys and if you compare the two genders of same age, the lady is usually more mature which is why some people advice ladies to marry guys that are at least 3 years older than them to get the kind of maturity they require.
Also some feel if the lady is older, she may not respect the guy or perhaps see him as an aburo.

I agree with you, there's no laid down nor hard and fast rule and age doesn't necessarily determine our level of maturity. What God says trumps every other idiosyncrasy. I would just like to add that the two parties should have an understanding and be able to handle the age difference without it bringing any issues to their relationship.

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Anonymous said...

but you are wrong for the main picture tho! looooool!!!!
"that one tooo young gaaaan!" lol

Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspoken said...

I love your response to this. "A man of God has certain qualities of maturity that comes from the Holy spirit and a true walk with God;" definitely did get me thinking :)